UNCRUMPLED

A weekly healing letter from Ivan James

You’re not broken. You’re becoming.

There was a moment in my life when I felt like a crumpled piece of paper—torn, bent, tossed aside.

I had hurt people.

I had lost myself.

I was hiding behind performance, addiction, and shame. But one day, in the middle of my healing journey, I found myself holding a wrinkled sheet of paper during an exercise.

And the prompt was simple:

“What would you say to the version of you you’ve tried to forget?”

That paper became my mirror. And I realized…

Healing isn’t about pretending the wrinkles never happened.

It’s about uncrumpling — slowly, gently, layer by layer — until you can see yourself clearly again.

Uncrumpled is my weekly letter to people who are ready to begin that process.

Every Monday, I send out a grounded, soul-centered email filled with:

  • Reflections on healing, identity, relationships, and faith

  • A weekly practice or prompt to help you reconnect with your true self

  • Masculine/Feminine polarity insights for balanced inner and relational work

  • Curated wisdom from trusted voices in the healing space

  • A soft space to begin or deepen your transformation

Subscribe below to receive Uncrumpled every week — and start healing the parts of you that were never broken, only buried.

"You don’t have to have it all figured out to start healing. You just have to stop pretending you’re not hurting."

— Ivan James

"You don’t have to have it all figured out to start healing. You just have to stop pretending you’re not hurting."

— Ivan James

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